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Feb 28
I became MinnUji’s dulhan yesterday. I married him yesterday. After that there was the vidayi hogayi. You know diary, for the first time MinnU held my hands. We fell asleep with him holding my hands. When I woke up I saw him beside me and I really did not believe that I was married to him. It all went like a dream.

March 1
I started the day with my MinnU. He was sleeping just beside me. We enjoyed very cosy moments together. We did not sleep almost the whole night. I mean the whole night. I feel great and it’s all new to me. Now I’m not just Sweety, but Mr Sikandar Abhijeeth’s wife. I accept this position with dignity, love and respect, because I love and respect him a lot.

March 2
As promised, I kissed my MinnU on his lips last night. O My God! With this kiss, mene apna MinnU ko aur zyda apnaya and he became mine today. It was our first intimate physical moment and everything went easily. Tomorrow is my vidai and I will leave my house permanently with my MinnUji. I have a little fear, but am very excited as well. I am very excited to be going to my new house. You will be there with me always, my diary.

March 3
Today is my MinnU’s birthday and I was the first to wish him. Now I’m the bahu of Flat No. 194. I cried a lot at the time of vidai. We celebrated his birthday.

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Feb 15
Today, I spoke for a long time with MinnU. This morning he went to see his boss’s new born baby. Later, he told me that today he understood the value of a wife and baby in a man’s life. He thanked me as I am going to be his wife and give him a cute baby. I’m desperately waiting for the moment when I will give my MinnU our baby. O God, please grant my wish. Now I want to talk to my MinnU about our future.

Feb 16
Today my MinnU said, ‘I love you’. My morning became beautiful with this. I think my MinnU is a little upset and I know he will not tell me the reason. He still thinks I’m not mature enough to understand his feelings. MinnU will come on the 24th and I miss him. Eight days left to see him and I want the days to go fast.

Feb 17
Shekhar (brother) came and Papa went to meet MinnU’s parents. Papa was very upset after that as Mummiji told him about the furniture and all other household things which Papa will have to give me at the time of marriage. Papa is tense as he has very little money left.

Feb 20
MinnU woke me up today. I forget everything else when I speak to him.

Feb 21
Mummiji has been hospitalised and I’m worried. God please make her well soon. Other marriage tensions still prevail.

Feb 24
MinnU will come to Patna tomorrow and all the rituals will start.

Feb 25
There were a lot of rituals and ceremonies to perform and I did not have the time to speak to MinnU today. We had the mehandi ceremony and this time I got a good colour. I enjoyed the sangeeth.

Feb 26
MinnU surprised me by coming to my house. I was happy to see him and we spent many hours together. I am excited about my wedding.

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Feb 8
He woke me up at 4.30 am. And we exchanged naughty messages. I felt I had already become his wife. MinnU did not call me the whole day. I was bored.

Feb 10
We have begun packing for the marriage. Almost 55 bags. We leave now for Patna.

Feb 13
I love singing. I practised today. MinnU and I used to chat the whole night... naughty, romantic love talk. He cared for me a lot. We spoke until midnight. At 12’o’clock we wished each other a happy Valentine’s Day. This is our first Valentine’s Day and we are not together. I told him to come early to Patna, but he said he will come on the 24th. I told him that I will give him a kiss on the lips if he stopped smoking. He agreed, but said I should start it first (the kiss). I agreed because I love him. If he quits his bad habits why should I have any problems with kissing him?

Feb 14
Today is Valentine’s Day. I was bored, as MinnU was busy. Rahul (friend) called me and proposed to me but I scolded him a lot. And I told him if he does it again, I will stop talking to him. He apologised. He was serious, but what the hell yaar. I love my MinnU a lot and cannot even listen to this kind of scrap from others. These are sacred words and I only want to hear them from my MinnU. Rahul spoilt my mood today.

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Feb 1
I was shocked when Mummiji told me that they are unhappy with the behaviour of my parents. It’s because she did not like the clothes we bought for MinnU for our engagement. In future, she wanted us to buy things for MinnU only from Bangalore. She also asked if my parents were giving their daughter things like furniture, cots, mattresses, TV, dressing table etc. Tell me diary, how can I ask Papa for these things. They are selling off Mama’s gold and are struggling with marriage expenses. My parents are on one side and on the other my sasural. What should I do now? I will try to keep both sides happy. Today I fasted for my MinnU.

Feb 4
I got my wedding card today. It’s beautiful, I am happy.

Feb 6
Sorry diary, I was very busy talking to MinnU as he was on leave. We spoke all day and he sent me pictures of our flat in Bangalore. The flat is beautiful and I will be the queen there. I’m excited to be going there.

Feb 8
He woke me up at 4.30 am. And we exchanged naughty messages. I felt I had already become his wife. MinnU did not call me the whole day. I was bored.

Feb 1 I was shocked when Mummiji told me that they are unhappy with the behaviour of my parents. It’s because she did not like the clothes we bought for MinnU for our engagement. In future, she wanted us to buy things for MinnU only from Bangalore. She also asked if my parents were giving their daughter things like furniture, cots, mattresses, TV, dressing table etc. Tell me diary, how can I ask Papa for these things. They are selling off Mama’s gold and are struggling with marriage expenses. My parents are on one side and on the other my sasural. What should I do now? I will try to keep both sides happy. Today I fasted for my MinnU.  Feb 4 I got my wedding card today. It’s beautiful, I am happy.  Feb 6 Sorry diary, I was very busy talking to MinnU as he was on leave. We spoke all day and he sent me pictures of our flat in Bangalore. The flat is beautiful and I will be the queen there. I’m excited to be going there.  Feb 8 He woke me up at 4.30 am. And we exchanged naughty messages. I felt I had already become his wife. MinnU did not call me the whole day. I was bored.

Jan 25
He was the only thing on my mind and I didn’t want to think of anything else either. He told me he missed me a lot and wanted to spend more time with me. We spoke for two hours. Today I told him how much I love him and also proposed filmi style. He told me he loves me a lot. I don’t have any words to express my feelings and happiness. He gives me all the happiness in my life. A girl wants only love, respect, safety, security, and faith from her husband and my MinnU is giving me all that. I have got the best person in my life. My Mummiji is a sweetheart. Tomorrow, my MinnU will leave for Bangalore. I can’t wait to talk to him. In the evening, my uncle and aunt came with gifts. They pretended to be happy, but inside I knew they were upset because I had consented to marry someone else and not their son, who loves me very much.

Jan 27
I wished him (MinnU) in the morning and he replied romantically. We had a romantic chat early in the morning. Today was his bachelor’s party and he went to Mysore with all his friends. He drank a lot. I didn’t call him as he was drunk. I just had an SMS chat.

Jan 30
Today Papa met Mummiji and I saw the wedding card MinnU’s family has printed. It was nice.

Jan 31
Even after four meetings in his office, he found time for me and spoke to me. I share all things with you, but today something happened which I want to forget. I will not tell you. Because whenever I read it, it would hurt me. I miss MinnU. I want to live my entire life with him happily. In just 27 days, I will be his wife forever. I’m waiting for it.


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Jan 21
It was a great day and I was excited to see MinnU... He had a party last night and he asked me to wake him up at 4.30 in the morning. It was a difficult task but I did it and he reached Patna this afternoon. He came to our room. It was the first time I was meeting him after 25 long days. It was a beautiful moment. Then we went to dinner and we continued chatting via SMS...

Jan 22
I messaged him ‘good morning’, but I didn’t get a reply. I applied mehendi on my hands for the engagement... No, it was for my MinnU. People say if I get dark red colour on my hands, it is a good sign. But, I didn’t get the colour I expected. This spoiled my mood. TOMORROW IS THE SPECIAL DAY IN MY LIFE.

Jan 23
Today is the most beautiful day in my life. Today is my engagement with MinnU and I’m getting nervous. Today he woke me up with a love message. I got ready and waited for shagun. The tilak ceremony for MinnU was conducted and then the engagement. We both had dinner and spoke for half an hour. Every one told me I looked beautiful and even MinnU was happy. After he left, I sent him an SMS saying I missed him. It’s over and I’m tired now, but I can’t wait for the day when we will be married.


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Jan 18
His mother, I mean Mummiji, called up to tell me to buy a good gift for Nupurji. I told her that I will give her a gift which she will never forget in her life. That sounded rude to her and I immediately apologised. We shopped for things for my engagement and marriage. Papa told me that we had three more rounds of shopping to do. I am learning a lot nowadays, something new every time. With each passing day, my excitement is growing. My life is taking a new turn. It’s the beginning of a new chapter in my life. It’s titled LOVE.

Jan 20
I packed my bags and travelled to Patna to get ready for the engagement. I spoke to MinnU and we discussed about where we would honeymoon. We haven’t decided yet, but it might be some place in the north-east. I booked the same room in Hotel Mayur where MinnU and I first met. My MinnU is coming to Patna tomorrow and I’m excited.

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Jan 15
Something happened today. He talked strangely to me. He thinks that he does not deserve me and that I’m an invisible frame in front of him. But I know he is best for me and that he is beyond my expectations. My love for him increases every day. But I don’t know what he thinks. But it’s ok. On the 21st he will come here. I long for the 23rd. I can’t wait for that day.

Jan 16
Today Nupurji (MinnU’s sister) came to Patna. Papa went to meet her and gave her Rs 1,00,000. I miss my MinnU.


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Jan 10
I didn’t wish him in the morning and I felt guilty. He wished me and spoke to me today. It was romantic. It’s all new to me. He asked me many lovely questions and I felt happy and blushed with delight. I made him happy with my answers. I felt very happy and loved him more when he said we will become good friends before we were married. Today, he told me that another girl had stolen his heart before we met, but there was nothing between them except that he had a soft corner for that girl. I don’t have a problem with this, but I will tease him about it. My in-laws are very good to me. I’m going to sleep now. MinnU...

Jan 14
Today is Makara Sankranti and I wished him. We had good food but I missed him a lot. I was worried about his lunch. I had a feast, but he didn’t have anything special. If I had a chance I would have gone to him and prepared his favourite chavel, dal, aalo ka bhujia, panneer ki sabji and dhania patta ki chatni. My parents and I spoke to him and his parents on this festival day.


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Jan 5
I prepared a three-page shopping list for MinnU... Today MinnU told me about his girlfriends. I thought if I am getting a guy like him, I should adjust with these things. But I have faith in him and I don’t think he will cheat me. I have tied him with my love.

Jan 6
I love my sasural because I’m getting MinnU just because of them. For the first time I told him ‘I love you’.

Jan 7
My day starts with wishing my MinnU, and every day I wish him at 4 am in the morning. He told me today that till the day of our engagement, (Jan 23) I should not message him or call him. He felt that if we speak every day, the excitement and spark would disappear from our relationship. I feel he will not love me. I felt I was unable to create any kind of feelings in him.

Jan 9
I feel he also misses me a lot. He called to say that I should not tell anyone of the condition that he has imposed on me. He told me that he missed me a lot. I think he missed me and I want him to miss me. I want him to start loving me... It’s just the beginning and he will love me.


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A real life incident being published by having having it from a GIRL’s diary………..!
Sweety’s Diary : How the knot she tied took her life

On June 2, 26-yr-old Asti Shekhar killed herself just three months after her dream marriage to a Wipro techie turned into a nightmare following the revelation of his illicit affair. Asti’s diary which records her travails will be used by the prosecution as evidence in court

Asti Shekhar, a bubbly, educated, enterprising young woman from Bihar got engaged to Sikandar Abhijeet, also from Bihar but working at Wipro in Bangalore, on Jan 23 this year. Life, as she saw it then, had taken on a rosy hue beyond her wildest imagination – a good-looking, loving husband with a nice job, a new comfortable life in a big city, all the other fruits of happy domesticity, leavened by loads of love, to follow... They got married on Feb 27, and in the next three months all her dreams got shattered. On June 2, she hung herself. Her father filed a criminal complaint against Abhijeet on June 4, and a few days later, the police arrested him on charges of death caused by dowry harassment.

The police have a diary purportedly written by Asti, mostly in Hindi but throughout in English script, and which diligently records her thoughts and feelings ever since she first met Abhijeet to her final hours. The diary will be produced in court as evidence by the prosecution. We reproduce here a slightly abridged version of it:

People mentioned in the Real Story:

Sikandar Abhijeet (MinnU, Mikku)

Asti Shekhar (Sweety)

Papaji and Mummiji (Abhijeet’s parents)

Papa and Mummy (Asti’s parents)

Shekar (Asti’s brother)

Ramya (Abhijeet’s girlfriend)

Jan 1
Today is New Year and for the first time, instead of wishing you first ‘diary’, I wished my MInnU... You were second this time.

Jan 3
We shopped for 15 saris for the wedding.



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